Warm, dry & fed
I often talk about and try to live by these words when I’m out on adventures,
big and small.
In theory it’s three basic things that makes everything so much more fun and relaxed. Still, it’s so hard to maintain balance and achieve all three of them at all times. At least for me. If you’re aware that you “fail” one of them for a while but you have the knowledge, the gear and the mindset for it to fix it later and it’s worth it, sure do it. In that case you know about it and made a choice. If it just happened, I would say that you ignored or missed the signs. Harsh? Absolutely, but true! During summer the price its pretty symbolic, but when its colder outside, perhaps far below zero it’s more important as it will affect you much more.
Warm. What is warm? In general, for you and for the group? If you’re cold and hungry are the others the same? Normalise that all will get cold, hungry and wet sometime during the trip. It’s true! Accept help when given and give when needed. Don’t think more about it than this. Don’t apply blame, guilt or say things like “you should be better prepared”.
Tired, wet and happy you’ve done it. Reaching the goal three hours earlier than expected, or arriving a little late still doing good in all three. What is the price and what is the difference between the two? The last day most people just finish, why is that? Being out in the element for a week, longing home for the loved ones, for a bed, sure! But is it more to it?
Like everything else it’s never 100% and it will never be. Aim for a little less, do your best but think progress, not perfection. Every time you go out you will learn things and feel things if you listen.
It feels good to be dry
Are you wet because of sweat, because you did the dishes, or walked in wet grass doing the evening routine? Could you do it differently? Does it really matter? Today perhaps, but next time? For me it’s important not to talk about right or wrong. What you feel is better. It just is… Nothing more. Accept or change, nothing more!
The colder it gets, the more important it is to pay attention to this. Why? It’s also a big difference if you’re damp or actually wet, the fabric in your clothes, your day in general and how you handle everything. Think of it like LEGO. It’s more stable if all of the pieces are in place and you can often have one or two misplaced before it quickly falls apart.
Still, not right or wrong, it just is. I don’t care, nature does not care. You care, you’re the cold one. And still it just is. There is better and worse and that applies to all of us.
Read, try, explore, be inspired but do the things that works for you. In time it will change. Everything does. Be humble. Treasure feelings! Act accordingly. For sure hard from time to time.
Thinking about the commercial with the peanut bar. If you’re not wet, if you’re not cold but still turning into a diva. Simply eat. Don’t look for the perfect place up a head. Eat now and eat at the perfect hilltop you’ve seen at a distance. Live a little. Too often we get there to see another great hill or field up ahead and we go for that one and so on. It often continues for a while and then we’re also risking to get injured because we’re low on fuel. Not taking it all in. In the end we dreamed of this adventure, planned for it and now you’re there, doing it but not taking it all it. Roughing it, and to what cost?
Final question! What does warm, dry and fed means to you and why? Think about it.